Girls Understand That Beauty is Only Skin Dee

We hope that our girls understand that beauty is only skin deep. We want them to understand more than just physical beauty, spirit and soul that matters. We want them to be more healthy and not to focus on the victims, at any price. However, again we contradict ourselves with the action we take. Fashion dolls from toy companies pencil thin, thin, tall plastic, this is a perfect system of adjectives to describe the beauty of the factory. Is often a favorite toy doll of the little girl. Plastics factory could have said often role models for little girls we wanted to go. Increased cases of anorexia nervosa obsessive about how they see the results. Studies show that at least two out of hundreds of young people with eating disorders in America. Girls assume that thin means beautiful pencils ugly even the slightest bit of fat. As a result, many times we are looking for girls to starve themselves to grow, leading to various forms of serious deficiencies. Beauty is far above even the mind or heart. As a physical self-obsession, girls often depressed assume that they are ugly. Different types of cosmetic plastic surgery is just the beginning of the hazards on the road to the future of our young girls.

It is therefore important that parents, we must be aware of health problems from childhood. We understand that every beautiful in its own way. As children of God, we all need to love ourselves as we are. If this does not happen like that when our children from problems such as how much suffering we have no responsibility? Now you decide!

Tips to Manage Our Children Activity

Now we have one child in high school. This is our second child to go through what I call it "crazy in high school." What a different world! You suddenly teacher 05:59, with a range of projects from many directions. Fortunately, we are a charter school. For us, I think the size of small schools more intimate atmosphere, the consequences of change.

For those of you who organized a new pace yourself, or want to make some changes from last year, I thought some useful insights tips that might help you:

1st Get to know all the teachers as soon as possible. In high school, more gaps in the media. If you have one in sixth grade, they are not used to having so many classes, teachers, and coordinate tasks. Fall through the cracks so easily, which can lead to feelings of defeat to demotivation. Not a good way to start the season of their lives. Better communication between teachers, the better you can help your child navigate this journey.

2nd A walk through the entry, the assignment together parents / teachers at the school of communication and other items every day. He teaches the child how to be proactive, stay organized in order to keep their jobs. While your children are more comfortable with the new schedule task, they run and much more. Meanwhile, give support and cooperation is very important to give them a solid start and be successful.

3rd Connect with the kids and learn about their day. It is important to keep in touch with our children about what to keep happening in their time, especially as they began to enter adolescence. Much has changed for them, some of whom do with the lists of school (hormones, attitudes, etc.) have to do changed. I recommend a good listener today. If the lines of communication open at this point, you have a better chance of the communication channels open in the coming years. This is part of the process of building trust.

Our children are not years in high school, constructive communication and trust. There is a big difference later. For those of you with a high school, I recommend to stay in close contact with the teachers, maintain close contact to find out what your child days. When I my oldest son, now told in school: "I always know the teachers from high school, and they always know I am .. a negotiable part you have control over the section, however, is how to take and as I do. " When our children grow, they want more freedom and more. Give them the freedom with boundaries. Let them make decisions that they make. And make sure they know that your back.

Do not be afraid, If Your Child Can Not Read [Yet]

Parents often worry if we see that our children has not proficient in reading even after school kindergarten. Do not panic because learning to read is a process that takes years. Identify the basic stages of children learning to read.

Every child has a reading speed different, because reading is a skill honed through several stages and continuing process.

The ability to read can also affect the ability to write because it was parents and teachers should understand that the ability to read and write requires a process.

As quoted from babycenter, Friday (12/3/2010) There are usually four stages children go through the process of learning to read, namely:

Stages of pre-reading children

   1. Children like to play the book like the other toys and has not understood that the book contains a story.
   2. Interested in bright colors and illustrations found in the book, but does not understand that the image contains a story.
   3. Children like to listen to stories read by others looking at the pictures in the book.
   4. Have not been able to identify words or letters in the book.
   5. This stage occurs in children aged 2-4 years.

Stage children begin to read

   1. Children are able to recognize each letter there, but not too good at put them together into one word.
   2. Need a picture on every page to help tell the story.
   3. Memorize the contents of books and try to read it again and again.
   4. Reading in a loud voice but did not show expression and did not stop for certain punctuation marks.
   5. This stage occurs in children aged 4-6 years.


Intermediate stage (middle) reading

   1. Using pictures as clues from the remains of a sentence to understand the story.
   2. 've Read fluently and only just found a few mistakes.
   3. Can answer simple questions based on the story.
   4. Reading out loud and sometimes expressive and have a break to some existing punctuation.
   5. This stage occurs in children aged 6-8 years.


Advanced stages of reading

   1. Can read fluently and understand the most or the whole story.
   2. Can enjoy a book even without a picture.
   3. Can answer many questions about the material or the feelings and thoughts of the story.
   4. Read out loud and full of eskpresif and fully understand all forms of punctuation.
   5. This stage occurs in children aged 8 years and over.

Save Our Kids When Browsing....

Today, has become common, when a child is able to run the computer or even playing online ..
In today's era of open, many children who are good at using google or yahoo searching ...
But careful, avoid your child from the Search engines that used by us, and todayi will recommend using a familiar search engine and secure for them ...
Yup ... we can use kidzui.com

KidZui, is one of the alternative Web browser for kids. With this browser you do not need to worry. KidZui We have a large database and offers more than 2 million games (games), web site, photos and video, and of course that you can access the service your child have all been approved, and a lot of porn ..

Essentially, the KidZui browser your child can easily be directed to services that are specifically intended for them.

Oh My Little Boy...

hurray .. brother punished ..
yup,

maybe that sentence from my little girl in the heart when she saw his brother get punished ..
well,
This “tragedy” begins after my boy grabbing cards that brought by his young sister ..
Naruto’s card, which brought by his young sisterwas captured and taken away .. so it make my little girl crying.. ..
saw this, I immediately pursued his brother and asked him to give back naruto card ..
",hey, give it back to your sister …!"
uh he just ran away ...
well I had to catch my boy, then I punished him..
I ordered him to stand in front of his clothes cupboard ....
I do not know whether this is effectively to overcome his naughtiness
??

Wow.. Holiday Time !!

Today, on September 14, 2009 is the first day of school holidays. Appropriate national curriculum in Indonesia, this Monday is the beginning of a long holiday to welcome Iedul Fitri holidays.
Wow .. This means that 2 of my Childs who was still sitting in the kindergarten and playgroup must be off, and stay at home .. This means they will play a full day at home!!
There are some things that seemed to do to anticipate that children continue to learn even though the school holidays.
I planning to do ::
Every morning around 7:00 I had prepared questions for my child in kindergarten, either reading or writing exercises. This I gave him so he will not forget the lessons from his school.
Then during the day, I taught him to open a school textbook, though only 10 minutes, and of course the reward of spending money to him ..
For my evening acquitted him of the lesson, just talk to them about the stories that educate before they sleep ..
This is all I do to fill their holidays, in addition they would also invite me to the mall or other refreshing place to avoid burnout ...
Hopefully this way I can make my child keep the school spirit, not saturated and not forget the lessons during his school on holidays ..

Trick to Motivate Children to be Discipline.

As parents, we would want our children discipline, and regular in our kids life. And to realize the discipline in children, there are some things we need to know and do, in order to make our child more discipline.
Below several ways that can make our children become self-disciplined

1. Examples from Parents
Without realizing it, we as parents never gave an example to our children about how to be disciplined. We just ordered and had often children do better without first give an example to them.
So the key is, for us as parents to live disciplined, and thus, the child will see the behavior of their parents and they will follow it.

2. Provide an understanding of the benefits of discipline
Show to our child, with the discipline our lives will become more organized, comfortable and more concentration to do something, for example, when children would go to school, teach them the discipline to leave on time, so at school, the child will feel calm, not rushed, no books left behind and can focus at school.

3. By giving them Motivation reward if they can more discipline.
Giving praise, prizes and a few other things that can motivate children to stay on discipline. This is necessary so that children feel valued.

4. Give them some educational Punishment if violates disciplinary
Punish them, if the breach of discipline at home. If the school, they would have received punishment from their teachers.
This is done to discourage children and do not repeat again.


With the above, we expect our children more discipline,...

Tips to manage a naughty boy

It has become common place when a child 5-8 years old of age often act naughty, reckless and dangerous thing to do for himself.
To overcome this, the following tricks that we can use to our children more manageable and not naughty.

1. Give warning to the child.
Giving a warning, a word that gives information about the dangers of children being carried out. We hope that with this warning they could be more understand and cancel his intention for mischief.

2. If the child is stubborn, approach, and take him elsewhere.
If he was still obstinate, the next step is to take the child to move elsewhere, with how to hold the child away from where he was playing.

3. Punishing children by educating punishment.
If you are still obstinate, one last way is to give punishment to educate the child, so he learned his lesson and not repeated misbehavior.