Trick to Grow up Your Child Confidence

For individuals who are grow up, your child need a highly motivated from parents for increase their confidence. this is needed to forge them into an independent person and have a confident nature. With a motivated and feeling confident on the child, you have educate your children to become people who can accept themselves, ready to accept the challenge in the sense that would like to try something new even though it was aware that there is certainly a possibility. People who believe themselves not fear expressed opinions in front of many people. The confidence, help our children to face the situation in the association and to address problems in society.

The confidence can make children able to overcome the pressure and rejection from his friends. Children who have confidence, courage and motivation to face difficult situations and will request assistance when he need. They have a charm that makes people want are friends with. They are not afraid to do things according to their view. Here are some ways foster confidences in our children:
1. Let your child do something that he wanted to do, the task of parents is overseeing and directing, not hinder or limit!

2. Trace their arguments on a matter that catches their attention. example, he who likes football, ask his argument about it and let him give comment on football players.. let them argumentation and express opinions, with this way we will up their confidence.

3. Indicate that you believe your child has the ability, provided the tasks and responsibilities which may cause feeling of having participated. For example, children are usually happy to answer the phone. teach him the phone polite and correct. Then, give him the opportunity to do so. Try also help children to get the goods / shopping that you buy .

4. Create opportunities for experiences and new challenges. Expand interests and skills of your child, let and receive a business that has been made, whether any results. Do not just see the end result only. Rather than say to the child that is not what may be done, it is better to say what can be done. For example, rather than say "You should not the house without permission," better say, "You can go to the home if people are already signed in and ask permission." Before comment the negative behavior of children, think about first two or three times, while always remembering to emphasize the things that positive.@

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